I believe that everyone deserves to be
happy. It shouldn’t matter their race, color
of their skin or the way they dress. The
no. 1 thing that counts is the way they
treat you. Do they make you feel special?
If the answer is yes, then you’re okay.
One thing you should always make
sure of is to look your best. Why would
you want to be dressed in a ratty t-shirt
every time you see each other? I
mean, this happens after you guys
have been dating for a while and you
stopped caring because you learned
they will love you no matter what.
But still those couples should try to
wear a nice outfit. Have you ever noticed
the first time you hang out you
treat it extra special? You make sure
your hair looks good, clothes, makeup,
and your smell. But after the first few
times you stop. Are you telling me that
you feel better wearing the same clothes
when you hang out opposed to something
new you just bought? For me, I always try
to wear something new whenever my
boyfriend and I hang out. You see if it’s
new, maybe your significant other will
notice it more.
I want you to think about this: How
many similarities and differences do you
guys have? People say opposites attract.
If you are complete opposites, it may not
work out too well, unless you’ve found a
way to get around it. I believe you should
have at least one thing in common with
your other. You have to outweigh one another.
Let’s say one of you is a pessimist
and the other is an optimist, this is somehow
good because you’re not the same.
My boyfriend and I are similar in these
ways, and then we’re different in others.
Ev e r y o n e
knows
that
there’s
a time to be
serious and a
time to have fun. But
how do you distinguish
the two? Well I believe you
will feel the vibe your other is
giving off to tell you whether or not
they are in a joking mood. There are
times when you guys will have those
‘serious talks,’ then there’s the flirty, playful
moments. All in all a lot about a relationship
is having fun. Why would you
want to be solemn 24/7? That would be
boring. So try to be open to new experiences
and have a good time.When you let
loose and go with it, you will enjoy each
other more. And never be afraid to be
yourself.
Guys need to
k n o w
that
i f
y o u r
girl is cold
you should offer
her your jacket. It’s an
obvious gesture. Come
on, you don’t want her standing
or sitting there freezing.You
should be a gentleman. Or if you
don’t have a jacket on, you could
keep her warm by putting your arms
around her. She would love that.
Another idea for a date people could be
talking about is to go to the James M.
Michener Art Museum in Doylestown.
Right now they’re featuring Jim Henson’s
Fantastic World through Nov. 29. This
would be cute to see because everyone
knows the Muppets. You and your other
could get a chance to look through different
displays while holding hands.
Let’s move on with this topic: Thanksgiving,
which is next week, is rapidly approaching.
Do you and your other get
together for this holiday? If you do then
it’s always nice to spend this day with
them.
Usually every year I go to a high
school football game, because I used
to be in the band, and it’s a tradition.
If you have something special like
that then you know how much fun it
is. If this is your first holiday with a
significant other, I’m telling you that
it’s exciting to experience this holiday
together. I think everyone should tell
their other what they are thankful for this
year. If it’s them, then let it be known. I’m
thankful to have a boyfriend who is there
for me, who listens to me, who is a great
guy, who I can trust and who makes me
laugh when I’m sad. And so I say- Thank
you Reggie for being the guy you are.
Now think about your other – what makes
you so thankful to them this year?
I wish you all a Happy Thanksgiving. I
hope you will read my articles and stick
with me. H?pe “2” Help.
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