You might be in a position
right now where all you want is
to get into a relationship. But
it’s not that easy. Most often relationships
come to you. It seems that when you least expect it, that’s when it happens.
Try not to plan anything, such as
a kiss.
Kissing is nice. Everyone knows that. Many girls would like their first kiss to be in a romantic setting. Do you know
why, because that’s how it is in
the movies? That’s an unrealistic
portrayal.
People know that when you are in a real-life situation, it’s not as romantic. I know this because one time when my boyfriend and
I went to the beach, I expected
we would watch the sunset and
have it be like in the movies.
That wasn’t the case at all. It
turned out, since I put so much
emphasis on what I thought
would happen, it actually had the
opposite effect. Therefore, we
ended up having a terrible time.
Think about this – how many
clichés can you name? Just to
name a few: Watching the sunset
or sunrise, walking on the
beach, dinner and a movie, kissing
in the rain, a candlelit dinner
and guys always paying. It’s all
the same.
What you need to be is creative.
These things have been done already. I have told you some dates ideas in my past articles.
If you don’t like clichés, chose one of those. Being different is good some of the time.
A cliché that I didn’t name is
one that I especially like: Flowers.
I don’t care what anyone says; I think most girls won’t get tired of a guy getting them flowers.
To me, it’s adorable and
sweet. Let’s go with this phrase:
“Nice guys finish last.” How
many people can tell me if this
is true or not? How far have
those nice guys been in a relationship?
Not very far. Do you know why? This is because a girl doesn’t normally give him a
chance. You go for the muscles, the lookers, and the abs. To sum it all up: The perfect body. But what they miss out on is a good
conversation, unless the guy is
both muscles and brains; in that
case you’re fine.
This is why some girls get
screwed over with a guy. They
find out that all they saw in him
was his perfect physique.
Here’s a question: Which
would you rather pick, the nice
cute dorky guy or the guy with
the hot body? I can tell you
most girls would go for the body.
This could be what will happen:
You go out with the hot guy.
Let’s say you start dating.
Some girls who are self-conscious
may worry about their appearance,
because the guy they’re dating is hot and that makes him appealing to other
girls. You worry that he willbreak up with him because you don’t think you
will get anyone better.
You could have avoided all of this if you chose the nice cute
dork, who makes you smile and laugh.
Second, if this is happening to
you currently, you can do much
better than him. Trust me. It will
only hurt you in the end if you
don’t break it off. Don’t let him
pressure you into anything.
My boyfriend is the type of
guy who wouldn’t make me do
anything I didn’t want to do.
The point I’m making is don’t
always go right for looks. Find
out other things about the guy
before your focal point is just his
appearance.
Another date idea is to go back
to your childhood. Go to your
local park and swing on the
swings, or climb on the jungle
gym. It’s so much fun and you’ll
have a good time together. That
way it will bring up a conversation
about your past as a little kid
and you can trade stories.
I would like to get people’s
opinions. What do you think
about French kissing? Why
does it appeal to so many people?
Email me and let me know.
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